An Adults Idea

My husband has a very sexy nature. He often buys me sexy lingerie to wear and he likes to dress up in sexy little outfits too. Our sex life has always been great and even when we have not been getting on to well, our sex life has remained strong. When it comes to matters of the heart, my husband likes to keep things to himself. Even though he is very sexual he doesn't really like to display his affections in public, even just simple hand holding.

We went to a party at one of his work mates homes my husband was all over me. I assumed he was drunk, so I didn't really question his public displays too much. After a few hours I decided to call things a night and go home. I'd gone to get our coats, when my husband said they were all getting into the hot tub and he wanted to as well. I said he could if he wanted to but I was going to go home as I didn't have a swimming costume, to which he replied that I didn't need one. I stared at him and he told me his friend was a swinger, and the party we were at was a swingers party.

I was so angry I stormed out, we both went home. I felt like someone had stabbed me in the heart with a hot poker, and started to think that maybe he had been to a swingers party before and slept with other women. After a few days we decided to speak about what had happened and he assured me he had never been to one before and had never been unfaithful. My heart ached so much. I felt I was not enough for him.

I kept thinking about the whole swingers thing and how I would fell if I had actually stayed there that night and swapped partners with another couple. I knew it was something he wanted to try out and eventually decided to give it a try. It was brilliant! We went 3 times, and it was my husband who decided not to go again, as he was finding it difficult to see me with another man. I did enjoy it despite my first reservations and can see why couples go swinging. I am glad we tried it and would recommend it to couples who are looking for something exciting and new in their sex life.