An Adults Idea

The internet seems full of free dating sites and I'd often wondered about them. I'd often wondered if it was possible to meet someone on the internet. I suppose it sounds ridiculous to some people but I'd always felt that the way to meet a woman and have a passionate relationship with her was to just go through life and hope for some kind of magic to take place.

The truth is that sometimes this just doesn't work. Sometimes you can wait forever for someone who won't ever come. I had had relationships but very often it turned out that we lacked any shared interests. Sometimes I'd just be drawn to the most beautiful woman in a bar and try my luck. Things could go well or badly but just because a woman is beautiful nothing else is guaranteed. That's why I decided to give one of those free dating sites a try. It seemed ridiculous to leave everything in life to chance. I'm not getting any younger and I'd had enough adventures to know that what I really wanted in a woman was someone I could love and trust. Someone who I'd be emotionally and sexually compatible with.

I added my details to the first site I saw. Looking back I don't know what took me so long. After all. It didn't cost anything. free dating sites have no hidden catches. You just enter your names and your details and a photograph and the next thing you know you have a whole host of potential girlfriends.

Carol seemed perfect for me from the moment I saw her. We met by the pier and she laughed as soon as she saw me. It was that kind of easy familiar laugh usually only shared by people who've known each other for a while. To be honest that's how it felt straight away. Soon we were lying on the beach caressing each other as if there were no obstacles between us at all. She told me that she'd had a son by a previous marriage but he was away at school now. It was so easy to be with her. Later that night we slept together under the moonlight. The sea breeze giving us all the more reason to hold each other tight. I didn't tell her I loved her. I didn't want to say too much at first. The truth was, however, that I felt about her then just as strongly as I feel about her now.

I know it doesn't seem so romantic to admit that I found the woman I always want to be with on one of those free dating sites but, hey, it worked for me.